You can’t control how someone else feels or chooses to do with their life. You may be tempted to try and change their mind–with passionate pleas, gifts, or even yelling–but you can’t make someone feel something they don’t feel. Keep in mind, this person is probably not trying to hurt you.
Moreover, how do you control your feelings for someone you love?
How to Control Love
- 1 Distract yourself from fixating on the person.
- 2 Do things you really enjoy.
- 3 Spend more time with others.
- 4 Give yourself the advice you’d give a friend.
- 5 Come up with “if-then” plans.
- 6 Meditate to refocus your thoughts and feelings.
- 7 Take your time when you choose to pursue love.
- Have a Roster.
- Never Hang Out During the Day.
- Have Really High Standards.
- Keep Friends As Friends, Hook Ups as Hook Ups.
- Be Real With Yourself.
Beside this, how long does it take to develop feelings for someone?
Men take an average of 88 days (about three months) to tell their partner they love them, whereas women take an average of 134 days (four and a half months), according to a 2013 survey conducted by YouGov and eHarmony.
Why do you lose feelings for someone?
In some cases, your sudden loss of interest in your partner could be the result of your discovering you both have different values or goals. When you feel this way, you may want to talk to your partner about it and think about whether or not you still want to stay in a relationship with them.